务虚笔记

若你要跟某人共度余生,那么余生越快开始越好(评《当哈利遇到莎莉》)

★★★★☆

电影里关于爱和性的对话,真是绝了。

说说Harry和Sally第一次见面时聊的话题吧——

性不是问题所在,性别才是,除非对方是同性恋。好象女人比较在意现下的状况,而男人思考得更多的是后面的发展,但是很多男人在表达后,行动上又会有所保留,就算他吻过你,也不一定是非你不可的,也许这只是他在某个场景下的自然反应,冲动使然,吻过后也不会给你想要的答案。

Harry和Sally花了十二年三个月才在一起,我有理由相信他们在婚姻的道路上会长久地走下去,因为他们已经将对方的缺点和习惯都了解得一清二楚,能够包容彼此。

那么多血肉之躯的真情实感,多少经历过惶惑和摇摆。相比于花了点时间绕了点弯路之后的非你不可,那种说好的永远看起来是不是又苍白又乏味?

 

片尾Harry的告白很棒:

“I’ve been doing a lot of thinking,and the thing is,I love you。How about you love me,too?I love it that you get cold when it’s seventy-one degrees out. I love it that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich。I love it that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you looking at me like I’m nuts。I love that when after I spend the day with you I can still smell your perfume on my clothes,and I love that you are the last person that I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it’s not because I’m lonely and it’s not because it’s New Year’s Eve。I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody,you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible。”

 

 

喜欢这部电影。有些喜欢是没法说出口的。就像喜欢一个人,却永远法跟他表白一样。

 

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